I’ve been thinking a lot lately about space.  The shared space we’re learning to negotiate as our homes have become offices, classrooms, and gyms during the pandemic.  The space we offer each other when we welcome all possible expressions of preferences and opinions.  The public spaces we as a nation have collectively decided are cherished.  The space I give myself when I move slower and gentler, treating myself with compassion. 

In the Jewish tradition, personal space is believed to be sacred.  In fact, the Babylonian Talmud, the largest literary body of Jewish law, includes the instruction that you must not enter a house suddenly, not even your own home, as it might disturb others who are inside and perhaps engaging in personal activities or otherwise enjoying their own privacy.

I love this little practical instruction — no doubt it helps us to be good house-mates!  It also speaks to the importance of all that space itself encompasses.  By entering slowly, respectful of who might be inside, we’re intentionally stepping back, giving others space.  When we’re inside, we’re free to enjoy our own space and privacy.       

I’m reminded of Exodus 25:8, “Make for me a sacred space and I shall dwell amongst you.”  The space we give to others is sacred and the space we reside in to express ourselves is just as sacred.  The Divine joins us in both the giving and taking of space.     

Whatever you choose to do today, whether it’s retreating to your private space or making space for others, may you find rest and healing in your sacred space.

Blessings & peace to you,

Jennifer, CPE Intern